Haris and Me

Kena panggil ke bilik boss td. Kena tegur kenapa lambat 3 kali bulan ni. Dah kad hijau (kalau lepas ni kuning n merah kne jumpa pengarah). Boss tny knp lambat. Well, kdg2 salah budget masa pagi2 bila kne siapkan haris, kdg2 dah budget ok tp sampai rmh pengasuh haris menangis so aku pujuk dulu. Tp yg paling ssh is aku penat pagi2, especially kalau aku shift AM. Sleep cycle Haris skrg dah lain, kul 2 or 3am baru nak tido bauangkan. Sbb aku slalu ambil dia pukul 10 lebih 11pm bila aku shift PM, n dia mmg berjaga masa tu. Sbb skrg dia tido ptg kul 5pm sampai pukul 9pm. Dulu dia tido kul 11am sampai 3pm je, skrg dah lain. Nk tunggu ayah dia jemput agaknya.

Boss faham mmg agak sukar skrg. Ayat boss, "husband / father / doctor , not easy"  but I have to make it work. Sory lambat boss, saya akan cuba adapt lagi. Boss kata dia akan expect mcm ni lagi 5 months or so selagi naziera x sampai lipis.  Might be true. But i'll try my best.

Gmbr hiasan ni masa dia tido ptg tu. Kul 5pm cmtu mmg haris akan shut down tak kisah la cmne pun. Dia prepare utk mlm tu kul 2 tak tido lagi lol.

Haris sabar k. Mak habis HOship kita jadi fmly yg lengkap semula. Skrg Haris bestfriend ayah. N ayah bestfriend Haris.

#sadlipislife #edMOnowadays #lifeinlipis #dadslife #fatherof2 #pjj

Be Kind

I have to admit. Sometimes kalau pt ivdu or ex ivdu aku mmg akan prejudis sikit. Something im working on improving

Smlm ada one greenzone pt, ivdu on methadone. Mcm xde org nk tgk, card dia lama jgk dlm box. In the end aku yg tgk.

During history taking he was okay, tp mcm irritable sikit, tak puas hati ngn akak security. I'll spare the details but basically I talked to the pt nicely, mcm dia bukan ivdu n ckp lembut2 je.

During examination tiba2 menitis air mata. Menangis. Terkejut aku. Aku pujuk la dia, pegang bahu dia etc. Lagi dia nangis. Solid few minutes jgk la. From what I see, mcm ppl treated him badly, so bila org buat baik kat dia, dia mcm terharu sgt. After dia dah calm down aku pun cont

sbnrnya dia xde pape yg warrant admission. Stakat LOA etc je. Mcm memaksa. Tp lepas nangis terus jd baik, n dgr je ckp aku. Aku explain psl discharge meds dia pastu dia pun beredar

What im trying to say is BE KIND. ivdu pun manusia jgk, n we dont knw whats his story. Sometimes a little kindness goes a long way

Like Father Like Son

Siannya si abang ni, adik nya masuk ward so dia kne hantar ke Bentong atok n wan jaga.

Ni gambar yg wan dia hantar kt whtsapp.

Tapi muka budak ni sebijik muka aku masa kecil haha. Seronok jugak rasa anak muka mcm aku, sbb masa baby dulu semua org kata muka mcm naziera.

Tapi berapa ramai je org yg knal muka aku masa kecil2 dulu. My parents n aunts n uncles of both sides jela kot. Tp yg jaga aku masa kecil2 dulu pakteh n makcik la yg paling lama or kerap at this age. Sygnya both of them yg sgt against masa aku nk kahwin dulu so for the past 5years dah tak rapat sgt. The things they said and what they dia, OUCH.

Sorry for deviating lol. Back to the photo, Haris is very cute la here, I guess, mana tumpah nya kuah kalau tak ke nasi.

#muhammadharisiman #anakayah #fatherof2

*See my instagram for the photo*

Tips untuk minta nak kahwin

Dear Nadzmi,

Aku tak knal parents kau mcmne but hari tu aku masa minta my parents, or ditanya oleh aunts uncles,

Kne confident tak boleh ragu2, bila ditanya bersedia ke tak. Terus jawab yes. She is the one.

Bila ditanya cukup tak ilmu agama, jwb tak pernah cukup ilmu agama ni, tp insyallah  dbila ada isteri lebih mudah utk mencari ilmu agama bersama

Bila ditanya cukup tak duit, jwb for a modest wedding insyallah cukup, for married life, insyallah membina masjid membawa rezeki

Jgn ever jwb nk kahwin sbb nk elakkan maksiat. Some akan kata kau kahwin for lust

Jgn ever quote ini sunnah Rasulullah, though its true, tp org alim pakai alasan ni boleh la. Org biasa2 mcm kita baik jgn

Caroline

Memorable Makan2 with Friends

Throughout my life Ive eaten with alot of friends, but some are more memorable than others

1. Kameya with Ulya n Alia

2. Boat Noodle with Asrina n Fikri

3. William with Priscilla, Aini n Amalin

4. Dakgalbi with Nik n Akmal

5. Mahbud with Ili n Nabilah

Hope there will be more memorable makan2 after this as well

My blog gets one post as well

I'm going to HTAR Klang from Selayang tonight. Anyone who wants to follow, or anyone in Klang who wants to hang out can pm me.