Ron & Hermoine

No one ever said finding for love is an easy task.

Sometimes you get hurt & sometimes you hurt people.

But the thing about love is, like life.

Its unfair.

Some people find the one who is perfect for them.

Some, not so much of a perfect fit, but they stay happy.

Others are less fortunate, either ended up with the wrong person,

or never finding it at all.

Still, why do people try so hard anyways?

Well, its because, every drop of tear & every crack of a broken heart

is worth it.

Love, is a risk worth taking.

Like any risk, you have to put something on the line.

In this case, its your own heart.

The heart is a fragile little thing, and shatters easily.

But like most sayings go, time is the best healer of the heart.

Once youre hurt, get off the horse for awhile, and when you feel better,

you get back into the game.

Love can be found in a million of ways.

Some by luck. Some by effort. & some by fate.

It can be in a form of a friend,

it can come as a form of affection,

it can even come as a form of desperation.

On the subject, some people are desperate for love.

Its understandable as humans need the love and affection of another to survive.

And to me, one's quest for love is an admirable one.

However lame or terrible it may be, once a person starts on such a quest,

he or she is a noble enough person to try.

The responsibility of others to this quest is to aid them.

Doesnt necessarily saying yes is the answer, rather,

a no could make significant changes in the person, making him or her a better person.

Unfortunately, during this period of time, some dwell on the answer of yes and no.

Fluctuating between a possible future together or none what so ever.

This is truely a difficult time a person

It is actually the most grousome part of the story.

Here, the person have to decide on his of herself what is best for them.

On the other hand,

Some people refuse love, with reasons of having responsibilities, commitments

or some other valid reason,

arent actually rejecting love, just to scared to put their hearts on the line.

Saying no to love or the chance of love is like rejecting part of your own soul.

A part that is yours, lost since the beginning, & now youre looking for it.

As mentioned earlier, love is a risk worth taking,

and if ever love tries to find you, you should answer.

It may not be a perfect fit at first glance, but thats much better than waiting for one.

Or finally thinking youve found the fit after so long,

only to find out that it isnt.

However it may be, love is worth to be tried. Even it its not the one,

the experience you gain from the attempt, will take you one step closer

to finding the one.

Actually this post is a result something that I found out today,

which reminded me of how it was like for me.

I had my share of the quest for love. It may still be ongoing.

But what I saw today was something that I could understand.

Ron, I know youre trying to find love. Its admirable that you try so hard.

But at the same time love needs effort, it also needs patience.

Give her some space, but still be caring.

You know that to some, you dont deserve hermoine, but thats now,

in the future it could be the other way around.

So hang in there!

PS: please at least TRY to be cool. I know its hard, but just try.

Hermoine, I know youre saying youre not interested.

But deep down, I know that youre just scared, & maybe a part of you

thinks that you deserve better.

Thats just not how love operates. Love surpasses race, stature, looks,

background & everythingelse.

Its much greater than you. At least give him a chance, he could prove

to be better than he presents himself.

PS: please dont think that youre too smart, even with regards to love,

sorcery is nothing like love.